Since the Daily Kos and others only function in the current Obama DOMA mess is to say the LesBiGay Community needs to calm down and everything is just wonderful here's a few sites that are letting folks know what's happening and what it all means:
Pam's House blend ...always steamin'!
hunter for justice
The Volokh Conspiracy
Others will be added as I find 'em!
Update - 061909, 10:04 PM
WhoRunsGov.com - The Plum Line
New York Blade